A structured, self-guided parenting plan that relieves you from the burden of ongoing negotiations, provides a sense of closure in your separation, and prioritises the wellbeing and stability of your children.
We know that you want a plan in place so you have the mental freedom to move forward into a new chapter. So, let's do it together.
I'm an accredited Family Law specialist and the founder of Bespoke Family Lawyers.
I help people to uncouple legally, financially and mindfully from their relationship so they can rebuild and move forward into their next chapter.
When it comes to creating a parenting partnership with your Ex, I've discovered that the best approach is when both parents can create a personalised plan that suits everyone involved.
The Parenting Plan you're putting into action now is about providing a clear and supportive framework for day-to-day arrangements, holidays, and special occasions. It's setting healthy communication boundaries between you, your Ex, and your children.
Please remember, your Parenting Plan isn't set in stone. As your kids grow and their needs change, the plan can naturally evolve. The key focus will always be on their wellbeing. No matter how tough the separation may be, remember that you and your Ex are super important to your children.
So let's keep it simple. The goal is to create an easy-to-use parenting plan that you and your Ex can implement with minimal conflict or confusion. My wish for you is to bring a sense of security and peace to both you and your kids. We'll cover everything from the big decisions to the tiniest details, all with a mindful and thoughtful approach that minimises conflict and stress.
Together, we'll embark on a journey towards certainty, equipping you with the tools you need to rebuild and embrace your next chapter. I'll be right here by your side, supporting you every step of the way.
Are you ready to start this empowering journey together?
Let's dive in!
Amy Sanders-Robbins
Founder of Bespoke Family Lawyers
Accredited Family Law Specialist
It's important to acknowledge that every situation is unique, and the challenges faced by each person may vary.
Maybe you're experiencing on or more of the these things right now:
A range of intense emotions such as anger, sadness, grief and resentment while trying to make practical decisions. I understand how this can be emotionally draining and difficult.
Differences in communication styles or lack of trust in reaching agreements and maintaining open lines
of communication. We cover this in the Parenting Plan.
Balancing different approaches to your own and your Ex's parenting styles, beliefs, and preferences and finding common ground when attempting to co-parent after a separation. We cover this in the Parenting Plan.
Fear of the unknown, resistance to letting go of the past, adjusting to new routines. Accepting and adapting to the changes that come with separation and co-parenting. I understand redefining the relationship with your Ex takes time, that's why a Parenting Plan can help effectively support you to co-
parent and build a new life.
You want clear and agreed-upon arrangements regarding parenting arrangements, schedules, and decision-making responsibilities so you can focus on your own wellbeing, moving forward and the best interests of your kids!
We will show you how in just two hours.
With our specialised understanding, you can trust that our Parenting Plan is the most holistic guide available. We've worked hard to bring you a self-guided package that covers everything you need to know - and goes beyond a quick band-aid to an emotional separation to include everything you need in a well-thought-out plan.
Frustrated with the current situation of constantly having to negotiate and make plans with your Ex. The repeated discussions and uncertainty is taking a toll on your emotions. (You just want peace)
Tired of the ongoing effort required to coordinate schedules to ensure everyone is on the same page.
(Why are you still playing project manager?)
Overwhelmed by the responsibility of organising and managing the children's schedules without a structured plan in place. (Everything in your head needs to come out on a piece of paper)
Most importantly, the primary focus is on the wellbeing of your children. You want the kids to know what to expect and when so they get consistency, routine, and clarity.
(You and your kids deserve emotional and psychological stability)
The need for closure and a sense of resolution, as you yearn to move forward in your own life and provide stability and certainty for your children.
(It's time to move forward properly)
A package with everything you need to make parenting arrangements for your children after separation (minus the legal complications) in just two hours.
Think of it as a DIY parenting agreement (without the overwhelm) to help you set clear expectations and responsibilities that benefit both you as parents and your children.
It's creating an awesome parenting situation that fits perfectly with your unique circumstances. We're all about making things easier and happier for everyone involved!
A 'Parenting Plan' is a framework that formalises the day-to-day arrangements for your children as well as during holidays and special occasions. It will also help you both get clear on how to:
Make decisions about different aspects of your children's lives, care and wellbeing;
Communicate with your children when they are with the other parent;
Communicate with each other;
Deal with schooling, extra-curricular activities, healthcare, education and disputes when they arise.
And more...
Enter your bullet points here..
It takes the hassle out of negotiating and recording the specifics of your children's care by carefully walking you through planning the arrangements for your children - both big and small - so you end up with a clear parenting and communication framework that you can share with your Ex.
Our goal is to set you up to navigate this next chapter with certainty and minimal stress, conflict and overwhelm so you can move forward!
Don't feel pressured to create a parenting schedule that looks like a friend's or family members. What works for your family may look very different - and that is completely ok.
Our Parenting Plan Package is designed with separated parents like you in mind, who seek certainty and clarity for their children's arrangements without conflict, stress and the costs of lawyers and court.
It's perfect for those who don't require a legally binding agreement, but still want a personalised Parenting Plan with a clear framework for both parents to be on the same page.
This Parenting Plan is not the right fit for separated parents who are wanting a legally binding and enforceable agreement, or where there is a high level of conflict, domestic violence or communication challenges that may impact on how you and your Ex can work together effectively to create arrangements for your children. If this sounds more like you, then reach out to our team here to discuss your situation and the best option for you.
We've made the process of creating a parenting plan super easy and accessible while still providing a high-quality personalised product.
This parenting guidance set will meet you and your family's future expectations.
With almost 2 decades of experience as a specialist family lawyer, where I have supported thousands of families in successfully transitioning to their next chapter, I have seen first hand the power of a clear parenting and communication framework to cultivating not only a successful co-parenting relationships, but one that also supports your kids (and what they need to thrive).
In The Parenting Plan, not only will you gain access to our proprietary template, but you'll also be supported with a guided video - so you can fill out your parenting plan as I explain everything in detail step-by-step.
This is what makes our Parenting Plan so unique. We guarantee that this step-by-step self-guided package is completely customised to the needs and interests of your family, but without the lawyers - or their fees. And it only takes 2 hours!
I understand that it can be tricky finding the right balance for what will work best for you and your children, but remember I will create the space for you to mindfully consider and assess what you and your family need now as you plan a way forward that reduces conflict and stress moving forward.
At the end of the 2 hours (plus extra time to refine and finalise the smaller details), you'll get:
A solid plan in place so you can have peace of mind, and reduce stress and anxiousness in yourself and the kids that comes from negotiating or making impromptu arrangements. (Priceless!)
Stability and consistency for your children so they can thrive in an environment that promotes security and routine. (Priceless!)
Clarity so you can move on with your life with a sense of closure and the ability to transition into the next chapter with confidence. (Priceless!)
Enter your bullet points here..
Everything you need for a
stress free co-parenting relationship!
This Parenting Plan is for you, even if...
✓ You don't know where to start
✓ You believe it won't benefit you
Having a mindful and carefully considered parenting plan is always going to be the best approach for things to be settled and sorted out, so you can focus on moving forward and the kids can have a clear picture of the future.
In just a few hours, our Parenting Plan Package can remove the stress of negotiating and documenting the details of your children's care.
We guide you through the process, helping you create a comprehensive plan for both significant and everyday aspects of parenting. The result is a clear framework for parenting and communication that you can easily share with your ex-partner.
Our aim is to empower you to navigate this next chapter with confidence, minimising stress, conflict, and overwhelm, so you can move forward smoothly.
Because...
lack of clarity may create anxiety and stress as you struggle to predict and communicate what's happening with your kids.
As a family law specialist, we feel deep down that you desire a fresh start, a new chapter where you can move forward with confidence and optimism. You envision a life where your family has successfully transitioned from the past, creating a fulfilling and joyful future for yourself and your children.
If you're feeling overwhelmed at the thought of of doing this on your own, we're here to help. Whether you need personalised advice and guidance for your specific situation, or if you want someone to review your Parenting Plan, we've got you covered.
UPGRADE with a 1-hour VIP Call with one of our team where we will assist you with various aspects of the Parenting Plan such as formulating your day-to-day parenting schedule, choosing the best options for holidays and special occasions, effective communication strategies with your Ex, addressing any concerns or issues, and providing solutions.
We'll address all your questions and worries to ensure you feel at ease. By the end of the call, you'll receive your completed Parenting Plan via email, ready to be shared with your Ex.
This VIP upgrade provides you with one-on-one guidance and support, an opportunity to go through your Parenting Plan with a lawyer, an email with personalised notes and a copy of the document we'll complete together during the call.
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Purchasing our Parenting Plan Package, utilising our free resources or having a chat with us before we are formally retained, doesn’t create a lawyer-client relationship between you and Bespoke Family Lawyers. It also doesn’t constitute legal advice and is general information only.
Your purchase will grant you a single user licence to edit, use and reuse your template for your personal use only. You may not assign or transfer these Digital Products to any other person without our express written consent.
When you purchase the VIP upgrade, we’ll be giving you customised advice about your situation so this means you’ll move into having a lawyer-client relationship with Bespoke Family Lawyers. The scope of work we will do for you will be limited to the VIP call. If you want to take things to the next level, then we’ll send through a client agreement detailing any further work we’ll do for you and our costs for that work.
Your purchase of the VIP call will grant you a 1 hour 1:1 session with a lawyer from Bespoke Family Lawyers and an email after the call summarising the discussion and attaching a copy of the Parenting Plan template worked on during the call. If you want us to do any further work for you, we’d love to help, but before we get started we’ll send through a client agreement with our costs for that work.
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This Parenting Plan Package adheres to Australian family law legislation as it applies at the date of your purchase and is designed for use by parents in Australia. A Parenting Plan is not a binding or enforceable document.
There are no returns or refunds available.
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Frequently Asked Questions
- Can't I just make up a parenting plan with my Ex and just change as we go? There's other things we need to pay for right now.We understand. You're going through so much right now. While we cannot give financial advice, we do encourage it is to be made an important family priority. Given our experience with separation, taking time to put together a mindful and considered plan with all the small details and big ones means you'll be able to think through solutions to minimise and possibly remove any ongoing conflict. This reduces stress and anxiety for you and your kids. Sorting out the big challenges now might also allow you both to avoid major legal costs further down the road.
- What if my Ex doesn't agree with the parenting plan? I'm worried that discussing a parenting plan will lead to arguments.Sick of conflict? Trying to avoid *yet another* heartbreaking conversation? Yep, we get it. But giving the parenting plan your everything is going to be worth it. This could just be the silver bullet to all of those distressing conversations you and your Ex keep having. Having a plan saves you months (or years) of organising and scheduling headaches. It gives your family a future of hope and peace of mind to move forward happily together.
- What is the process of putting this plan together?You'll need at least 2 hours of undisturbed time to process and plan (make sure you turn your phone to silent mode). You'll also need a cuppa and a pen to take notes as you move through the Workbook. In the video, I'll guide you step-by-step on what to do and how to complete the workbook. Just follow my voice, and you should have fairly completed the Parenting Plan in 2 hours.
- Will it work for our situation?Ideally, we believe all co-parents need a plan in existence. Without a parenting plan in place, separated parents don't have closure and even when parents are amicable, there is a degree of uncertainty and instability. This is an ongoing concern about what happens if something upsets or changes the amicable relationship. There will always be a need to sort out who has who, when and where during the course of the children's lives. This creates a state of uncertainty for both the children and parents. Having a plan that's fully customised to your family's unique needs puts everything down in black and white. It has to work, because it's a solution YOU personally created! Not a solution created by a legal team who hasn't walked in your shoes.
- Do I need to focus on a parenting plan right now?Putting a structured parenting plan in place can provide stability for children by establishing consistent routines and schedules, which can help them feel secure during the transition to their new family dynamic and 'new normal'.
I understand this is a challenging time for you, so while there is never a right time, giving you a sense of control and empowerment over your new family dynamic is going to minimise ongoing emotional stress, anxiety, and conflict, which can negatively further impact your mental health and wellbeing.
You may want to include a review in your Parenting Plan so you and your Ex can check-in to see if the arrangements are working for the kids. This Parenting Plan is designed to evolve as your children and family's needs change.
It's much like ripping off a bandaid: the lead-up is much worse than the actual event. Getting started today will see you arriving at a brighter future so much sooner. - I want to keep things flexible for our lifestyle.A Parenting Plan isn't about locking you into a miserable routine that makes you feel trapped. It's about laying down boundaries that do the exact opposite - they give you freedom! Trying to exist in a murky grey area is much harder than in a well-defined routine.
It's important to remember that this is a fluid arrangement. Your Parenting Plan will likely look very different in a few years from now to reflect the changing ages, needs and interests of your children.
Regardless of how the parenting arrangements evolve over time, the purpose of the Parenting Plan will continue to be focused on creating a framework around how your children are taken care of. - I'm not sure if I trust my Ex to follow the parenting plan.I'd love to know more. Let's chat! It helps to understand exactly what is happening inside your co-parenting situation so we can help guide you through next steps, and determine if the Parenting Plan is right for you! Reach out to our team here.
- I have an amicable relationship with my Ex, so I don't believe I need a formal planDon't feel pressured to create a Parenting Plan - there is no one size fits all. If you think your family could benefit with a little more organised scheduling and structure, a Parenting Plan might help solidify what you already have in place so you both understand and know what to expect from each other.
We don't want to disrupt what you have both worked hard for as co-parents! The only thing I would add is to make sure to review the arrangement. We recommend that you and your Ex review your Parenting Plan every one to two years to ensure it is still meeting the needs of your children, and setting them up to thrive in the best way possible. - What if I change my mind after purchase?Good question. There are no returns or refunds available. If you are unsure, we can help you to decide if the Parenting Plan is right for you! Reach out to our team here.
- I have communication issues with my Ex, so I'm not sure if this will work for me?This is a really common barrier - communication has almost completely collapsed between the partners, and the chances at a sit-down conversation are slim. We get it!
The great thing about this workbook is that it provides a beginning, a middle, and an end. There's no surprises, no emotional questions, and no blaming. You can both take time to review the questions and prepare your answers in advance.
It's also worth noting that the Parenting Plan template includes content on how to communicate with your Ex - or rather, how to communicate with each other. This Plan is to understand parent's goals, what's important to you and your family, your concerns, your needs and how you want to do life moving forward.
You and your Ex don't have to complete the Parenting Plan or Workbook together. You can firstly prepare the Parenting Plan based on what you think will work best for your children and then share what you have prepared with your Ex. Your Ex will then have the opportunity to review and provide input into the parenting plan before it is finalised.
Our goal is to help you create a sustainable parenting plan that works for you, your Ex and your children.
If you're still unsure, contact our team to discuss how you and your Ex currently communicate, and we can let you know if the Parenting Plan Package is right for you before you purchase it. - I think I'm going to need some extra help in figuring out our Parenting PlanIf you're feeling overwhelmed at the thought of doing this on your own, we're here to help. Whether you need personalised advice and guidance for your specific situation, or if you want someone to review your Parenting Plan, we've got you covered.
Book a 1-hour VIP call with the Bespoke Family Lawyers team, tailored to help you complete and fine-tune your Parenting Plan. During this call, we can assist you with various aspects such as formulating your day-to-day schedule, choosing the best options for holidays and special occasions, effective communication strategies with your Ex, addressing any concerns or issues, and providing solutions.
We'll address all your questions and worries to ensure you feel at ease. By the end of the call, you'll receive your completed Parenting Plan via email, ready to be shared with your Ex.
This VIP upgrade provides you with one-on-one guidance and support, personalised summary notes, and a substantial saving of $1,100+ for peace of mind. - When can I implement this?As soon as the purchase is made, this complete customised Parenting Plan will be sent to you electronically by email from Bespoke Family Lawyers. In that email, you will find a link to download the word.doc Parenting Plan template together with a link to the guided video and a link to a pdf of the Workbook. (Make sure you check your inbox and junk/spam folders).
Important Notice
Purchasing our Parenting Plan Package, utilising our free resources or having a chat with us before we are formally retained, doesn't create a lawyer-client relationship between you and Bespoke Family Lawyers. It also doesn't constitute legal advice between you and Bespoke Family Lawyers. It also doesn't constitute legal advice between you and Bespoke Family Lawyers and is general information adhering to Australian family law legislation as it applies at the date of your purchase and is designed for use by parents in Australia. A parenting plan is not legally binding or enforceable by the Family Courts. It is intended to be a flexible, working document that creates a framework for you, your Ex and your children. It is a great place to start, and for some families it is all that is needed. For others, they may want to eventually formalise the parenting plan as a Consent Order that gets submitted to the Court to obtain a binding and enforceable Court Order.
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